Coming from someone who has lost a loved one, there is no way at all to replace a person.
Sure you can think of "the good times" if they are any,
but it's mostly remembering the random memories over and over...
It's not true when people say you will be forgotten in six months.
It's a kind of pain that comes in when it wants.
Whether you're driving, or in the shower, it's hard to deal with...
Regards,
SY Leong
